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  1. What's a Sexual Cultivation Practice?

    People are always asking me how I became so orgasmic, so radiant with sexual energy and so fortunate to have such an amazing relationship.  The secret to my success has been due to years of practice.  And not just any practice but specific exercises that cultivate my sexual energy, feminine radiance and pleasure.  It's my Sexual Cultivation Practice that's done it all!

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  2. Setting Up A Love Den

    I love putting together sensual spaces.  I like getting the lighting just right, setting up music, placing all the sensual furniture, and of course decorating. But sometimes life can get in the way of creating a sexy love den for you and your lover.

    To me having a seven year old isn't the sexiest thing in the world.  He now has his own bedroom, but that doesn't keep him from wanting to visit us in the night, especially when he isn't feeling well.   Which is why having a separate space for intimacy is important.

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  3. Why Is Hotel Sex So Much Better Than Sex At Home?

    He had me bent over the edge of the bed, handcuffs on my wrists, my skirt lifted and the fresh mountain breeze lofted in from the floor to ceiling open-air glass doors.  Sunlight danced on my skin, raining down from the skylight overhead.   Later on we’d build a fire in the fireplace and it would be my turn to handcuff him…

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  4. Quick Tips For Using The Callie Vibrating Mini Massager

    Do you love bullet style vibes?  Ready for something seamless, satin smooth, waterproof, and has easy push button operation?

     The Callie Vibrating Mini Massager by Jopen is so amazing it’s featured in the October issue of Cosmopolitan magazine. The issue, which is on newsstands now, has cosmopolitan testers trying out vibrators in an article aptly named Toy Story.

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  5. Stop…Back Away from the New Sex Toy and Do these RPP Steps First!

    As CalExotics’ Expert Sexperts, we get the opportunity to review and rate many of their sex toys. And part of our review process includes giving new toys to tester couples who help us with the fun part, so to speak. They get to test out toys and give us important feedback which we then use to give our final rating. Well, after years of working with these very lucky couples, we have learned that they sometimes skip several important steps and jump right into using the toy.  Really…who can blame them…they are excited to test out a new toy!! Of course, they want to immediately rip open the package and get right into having fun!  

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  6. What To Do When Sex Is Painful!

    Ouch!  One of the biggest complaints I get from women is that sex is painful.  There are a number of reasons why this happens; from vaginal dryness to tearing to scar tissue.

    Here's a quick video for more:

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  7. Celebrating Breast Cancer Awareness Month With Inspire

    Did you know that October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month?   It’s time to celebrate and honor all the bodacious tatas in the world (and men, you have tatas too, and yes, while rarely discussed men get breast cancer too).

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  8. 5 Things You’ll Love About The JOPEN® Callie™ Vibrating Mini Wand Too!

    As CalExotics’ Expert Sexperts, we have the very pleasurable “job” of reviewing all types of sex toys and pleasure products including ones from JOPEN, the global name in luxury pleasure products.  There are so many toys that we like that have different shapes and features available.  However, we are super excited about the new JOPEN Callie™ Vibrating Mini Wand and we are definitely not the only ones!

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  9. Playing With Gender Roles In The Bedroom

    A few years ago I was riding home from San Francisco with a world famous Drag King. It was one of the most exciting conversations I ever had on a road trip. I was curious about everything. "What's the process of getting into being a man? Did people actually believe you were a man when you went

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  10. Spy-free and Sensual: CalExotics Remote Control Vibrating Panty Review

    Recently, a woman filed a lawsuit against the Canadian company Standard Innovation.  Believe it or not: her vibrator made by that company was spying on her.  In fact, this vibrator was potentially “spying” on tens of thousands of users.  This was a class action lawsuit which covered not just this one women, but all consumers of the product.

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