1. Playing With Gender Roles In The Bedroom

    A few years ago I was riding home from San Francisco with a world famous Drag King. It was one of the most exciting conversations I ever had on a road trip. I was curious about everything. "What's the process of getting into being a man? Did people actually believe you were a man when you went

  2. Spy-free and Sensual: CalExotics Remote Control Vibrating Panty Review

    Recently, a woman filed a lawsuit against the Canadian company Standard Innovation.  Believe it or not: her vibrator made by that company was spying on her.  In fact, this vibrator was potentially “spying” on tens of thousands of users.  This was a class action lawsuit which covered not just this one women, but all consumers of the product.

  3. What Starts in The Mind Can Block Your Body & Brain From Sex

  4. It's Superior Relationships Month and National Read a Book Day!

    We absolutely love books…especially self-help books! But like sex toys, there are so many to choose from.  Some self-help books are absolutely amazing and contain a wealth of great information.   Other self-help books are well…not so great.  

    Since today is National Read a Book day and this month is Superior Relationships Month, we have compiled a list of our favorite relationship and sexuality self-help books.  In fact, we love these books so much that we even recommend them to our clients as part of their home assignments to help improve their relationships.  We have also added books written by our fellow CalExotics Expert Sexperts, Jaiya and Dr. Mike.   So, check out some of our favorites (in no particular order):  

  5. How Many Feathers did the Inspire™ Vibrating Remote Breast Massager Receive?

    This month, as CalExotics Expert Sexperts, we were sent another great product to review. Just a reminder, each product is rated, by our testers (2 couples), using The Love Bird’s Feathers Rating Scale™:

  6. Sexting: When It Works and When It Hurts

    When it comes to love and sex, a lot has changed since my grandparents were married in a farming town in rural Ohio 50 years ago.  In the mid 90’s, I loved AOL Instant Messenger to flirt with my adolescent crushes.  In 2016, you don’t even need to be on your laptop to wait for someone to be online to start a conversation.  Send a message on a dating app, and wait for that light on your phone indicating a reply.  Flirting and foreplay are presented to you 24/7 with a simple swipe on your iPhone - whether you’re on Tinder or texting a pic that Anthony Weiner would regret. 

  7. What Do You Need To Give Up In Order To Live a Turned-On Life?

    ; mostly of control, but big letting go.  Why?  Because I noticed that I wasn’t living my life in bliss, that I wasn’t living a turned-on life.

    Sure, my relationship with my partner was off the hook amazing and fulfilling. 

    Sure, my business was more successful than ever before.

    Sure, I had manifested so much that I desired to have in life.

  8. 5 Pillars to Sexual Health & Pleasure

    Would you like to improve your sexual health and pleasure?

    If you answered yes, I'd love to teach you how to become a better health detective.

    Se when I go to see my doctor I'm always curious why a symptom or issue is showing up because I'd rather get to the root cause and eradicate it.  I'd rather know what is causing a discomfort or issue and treat the cause not the symptoms.

    I put together this video to help you take a look at 5 different aspects of your life to see what you could do to be better sexual health detective!

  9. Stella II Double Kegel Ball Set: The Affordable Vaginoplasty Alternative

    Guilty pleasure confessional: I watch Bravo’s The Real Housewives from time to time. Vaginoplasty is a popular topic on both coasts. Ex-Real Housewife of Beverly Hills Brandi Glanville talks about her surgical vaginoplasty which cost over $10,000. She’s also talked about the considerable pain that comes with a surgeon cutting into your genital area.

  10. Quiz: Things Men Can Stop Worrying About in Bed

    Guys, do you wonder if your sex life is "normal"? Do you worry about your penis size or how long it takes you to achieve orgasm? Take this WebMD quiz to learn that what may be concerning you isn't...


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